It’s been exactly one month since I’ve blogged anything. That’s a long time. Until today, I had not even given this blog one thought. I’m not sure if that’s a good things or not. I suppose it’s good. It could mean that I’ve been so busy with life that I haven’t had time to share anything new. That’s kind of true. I’ve been busy, but not so busy that I haven’t touched the computer. In fact I’m on the computer everyday at work and most days in the evening at home. I’m been away from the blog because I don’t know what I really want it to be. Is it a journal of my life as a wife? Is it the tale of a woman desperate to lose weight? Or what about the blogger that takes part  in the blogging challenge of the month.

I’ve learned that the blog can’t be a true journal of my life as a wife. Because I have several readers that actually know me and mylover, I have to filter what I share. I can’t talk about wild romps in the boudoir or big fights over little things…cuz that ain’t none of ya’lls business.

The tale of the desperate fat lady kind of gets old. Even if the reader’s aren’t tired of hearing it, I’m tired of talking about it.

Then there is the blog challenge of the month. Who am I kidding? I have a short attention span…I’m not going to write everyday about some prescribed topic. I’m just not.

So the question remains, what is the point of this blog!?!

Have you ever had this debate with yourself? How do you decide what’s too much to share? How do you write about the same thing over and over? Thoughts?